Ideally,
executives don’t have to face these challenges alone. They have the
support of their boards of directors. But the high stakes, the strong
wills and personalities of successful, high-powered people, and the
heaps of uncertainty ensure that challenges at this level are
accompanied by interpersonal conflict. The backing of a board can help
mobilize an organization to achieve its most ambitious aspirations, but a
significant divergence of vision and values may lead the board to stall
progress on an organization’s highest priorities — and even unseat a
CEO.
Because contentions impact direction, strategy, and morale organization-wide, it’s important to learn how to
navigate conflict
with the board. Leaders must proactively and productively make covert
disagreements overt and foster a healthy dialog. Otherwise, they may
fall victim to decisions made outside the room and behind our backs.
Here are five strategies for navigating conflict with your board.
Be the Thermostat
Organizations
take their cue on conflict from the CEO. Are you comfortable raising
tough topics? Are you open to differing perspectives? As a group, will
your board feel comfortable challenging you and
supporting you? Will they ask provocative questions you may have
avoided facing? Are you then able to have productive conversations?
When
Yaniv, an executive client of mine, replaced the founding CEO of a
rapidly growing billion-dollar services firm, he first decided to
establish the tone for his board interactions. He didn’t create a formal
list of norms — the kind that elicits head nods around the table only
to be forgotten when real disagreements surface. Instead, Yaniv modeled
the behavior he wanted. At the first board meeting, he named all the
concerns that he’d heard of in one-off conversations with his executive
team and some board members. For example, the board was uncertain
whether the company could continue its rapid growth. Some were worried
about Yaniv’s youth. Three of the seasoned executives he now managed had
coveted the CEO role. If they were to leave, they might take valuable
lieutenants with them.
After
stating these and other issues, Yaniv invited his board to add to them.
A couple more topics were added. Collectively, they prioritized how to
address these items.
Proactively
naming these smoldering concerns helped extinguish potential conflict
rather than fuel it. Yaniv further forwarded the tough conversations by
asking, “What do we agree on?” “What do we disagree on?” “If we were
successful in addressing this, who would stand to lose something?
“What’s the last 10% you haven’t shared?”
Maintaining
the “temperature” for tough conversations with the board allows you to
tackle a potential conflict before it becomes destructive. It increases
the board’s confidence that you know what’s going on and allows them to
provide you with early helpful feedback.
Share Early
With
any conflict it’s best to inform all parties of the full situation and
its status early and often. This is especially true with boards because
the stakes are high, and it’s possible the board might get concerned or
act without your knowledge if things get worse.
Does
a problem have the potential to become bigger and more conflict-ridden
in the future? If so, share now, so the board is not surprised later or
informed first by someone else. Generate a list of questions that your
toughest critics might ask to anticipate the types of concerns that
might be raised. If an issue has occurred to you and is critical to the
business, raise it. When I work with executives, I counsel them to raise
possible objections at the beginning of their presentation, so others
more easily get on board, knowing their concerns are already being
considered.
Break It Down
Unless
there’s a clear breach of ethics, conflict with the board is rarely
binary or unanimous. If there are rumblings of dissension about a recent
decision you made, a lack of confidence in someone on your team whom
you endorse, or concerns about low employee morale in the recent
employee survey, for example, identify the sources of discontent.
Understand who has concerns, who is neutral, who has an opposing
viewpoint, and who agrees with you. Instead of taking on the board
wholesale on sensitive topics, work with individuals first: seek allies,
and lean into dissenters, despite the inclination to avoid them.
Anahita,
the CEO of a retail chain, first learned of a concern about product
strategy through veiled questions during a board meeting. She knew
something didn’t feel right, but instead of calling out the tension in
the meeting, she spoke afterward to five board members separately. In
those private conversations she learned that a couple of members were
concerned about a competitive threat and were not only vocal in sharing
their concerns, but also quite dire in their predictions. Anahita called
these individuals directly to identify the source of their worry. She
learned new data, but also shared information she had that was unknown
to the board members. Because board members were unaware of measures the
company was already taking to stay ahead of the issue, she was able to
defuse additional concerns. At the next board meeting, Anahita thanked
the two members who’d raised concerns, shared the facts to address them,
and asked, “What else do you know that I don’t know? What would our
critics say? What can we learn from that?”
By
identifying and engaging with individual viewpoints, you’re able to
both fully understand each perspective while avoiding blowing up an
issue beyond proportion. You also demonstrate courage and confidence
when you approach dissenters directly and with
curiosity.
Expand It
Executives
must keep a long and broad view in mind. If the board is reactive to a
short-term crisis (the economic landscape, for example), ensure you also
bring in the long view. Reframing or enlarging the frame of a challenge
to include the broader competitive landscape or the customer
perspective can sometimes completely change the solutions we
implement. We might react to a short-term challenge with a big move that
could have long-term consequences. The benefits of immediate, drastic
action are clear in the heat of the moment but what about the cost of
carrying this decision a year from now?
When
faced with short-term discussions or immediate crises where the board
is feeling the urge to take quick action, ask them broad questions to
realign their focus on the long term. For instance, a year from now,
what will we regret more? How do we balance the finances with the
product strategy to survive the short term and thrive in the long term?
You’re concerned about the impact on budget, what about the impact on PR
or the customer?
“And” It
The
pitched battle of many conflicts is about choice A vs. choice B. Each
faction passionately advocates and re-advocates the benefits of their
preference while the other party becomes further entrenched in their own
and opposite convictions.
However, many fractious situations are more of an “and” instead of an “or.” Author
Barry Johnson calls these “polarities,”
two interdependent opposites where both are essential over time to have
a healthy, functioning system. Should we focus on the short term or the
long term? How about quality or cost? Process or innovation? The answer
is yes! Despite this, we expend energy debating and swinging wildly
between choice
A and
B until each becomes untenable.
The
next time you’re ready to pitch a battle for your side of an either-or
false dichotomy, ask yourself, “I know my side is necessary, but if we
only pivot to this side, what are the downsides?” Have each faction
temporarily take the other party’s side. Faction A should consider the
benefits of option B and the pitfalls of option A, and vice versa. Soon
it becomes evident that both options have downsides and upsides, and
both options may be necessary. Therefore, as Johnson says, instead of
arguing for one over the other, align on how to maximize the upsides and
minimize the downsides of both.
When
pressure and power meet in the types of topics usually discussed
between a board and the CEO, one way to keep your footing is to name the
pressures, set the tone, and then connect not just with those who echo
your thoughts but with everyone else around the table too.
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